What To Expect: 6 To 9 Months

Gross motor skills: Big body movements

What should my baby be learning?

By 6 to 8 months:

  • Pull up to sitting when hands are held.
  • Push up onto straight arms when lying on tummy. 
  • Reach for a toy with one hand when lying on their tummy.
  • Move to a sitting position from their back.
  • Sit while leaning on hands.
  • Bear weight and bounce on legs when held by an adult. 
  • Stand at a sturdy object or crib rail for a brief period of time.
  • Spend time on hands and knees.

By 9 months:

  • Sit without support and use both hands to play.
  • Pull up to stand at the crib rail.
  • Crawl forward for short distances.

How can I help my baby?

  • Baby sit-ups.  Have your baby lie on their back, facing you.  Gently hold the baby’s hands and help pull the baby into sitting position.  Slowly lower back down again.
  • Give baby lots of tummy time. Urge your baby to:
  • Push up on arms and reach for toys
  • Turn around on tummy to change directions
  • Try crawling by placing toys just out of reach
  • Hold or put toys just out of reach. Have your baby reach for the toys while sitting.
  • Stand your baby up at edge of a low table. Stay close for safety.
  • Sit on the floor. Hold your baby around the hips in standing position while facing you. Have your baby to dance or bounce.

Fine motor skills: Play and self help

What should my baby be learning?

  • Reach for small objects that are near.
  • Hold an object in each hand and bang them together.
  • Move toys from one hand to the other. 
  • Drop objects on purpose and then play with them.
  • Use fingers to “rake” objects.
  • Pinch and hold objects with thumb and forefinger.
  • Use fingers to feed themselves.
  • Hold a bottle.

How can I help my baby?

  • Have baby search for hidden objects that are covered. Make it a game.
  • Play with your baby while they sit.
  • Have your baby play by filling and dumping a bowl of safe, small objects.
  • Have baby bang 2 objects together.
  • Help your baby practice picking up small pieces of finger food.
  • Have your baby use a bowl and spoon.
  • Use lots of tummy time to build strength in the hands, arms and trunk.

Language and social skills

What should my baby be learning?

  • Respond to their name.
  • Beware of new people. This is called stranger anxiety.
  • Know you by sight and lift arms to be picked up.
  • Have a range of sounds, gestures and facial expressions.
  • Play with a toy up to 2 to 3 minutes.
  • Follow fast-moving objects with their eyes.
  • Start looking for partly hidden objects.

How can I help my baby?

  • Play simple games, like “peek-a-boo” or “Itsy, bitsy spider.”
  • Read and sing to your baby. Try to get your baby to make the sounds you make.
  • Let your baby look in a mirror and smile at, talk to and touch the “baby in the mirror.”
  • Talk to your baby and name what you are doing. 
  • Point out common objects and name them.
  • Look at your baby’s face as you react to sounds your baby makes.

Sensory Processing: Understanding sights, sounds, tastes, touch, smell and movement

What should my baby be learning?

  • Use vision, touch and taste to explore toys and other objects.
  • Put out a hand to protect self from a fall
  • Enjoy bouncing, swinging and other movements.
  • Aware of and interested in new people and places.

How can I help my baby?

  Sing songs to your baby.  Offer musical toys with gentle sounds.
  • Let your baby bring large, clean and safe objects with different textures to their mouth to explore.
  • Give your baby different kinds of movements. Include bouncing, swinging, wagon or stroller rides.
  • Safely and securely tip your baby’s body in different directions. Go forward, back, and sideways.
  • Massage your baby with warm lotion.